I’m an existential therapist practising in Singapore, and I often meet people unsure whether individual or group therapy suits them. This choice shapes how you experience support, connection, and personal growth. In my work, I offer both formats, each creating a different kind of space for exploration.
Individual therapy allows you to focus deeply on your own story, while group therapy brings you into shared conversations where you realise you are not alone. Rather than one being better, the question is what you need at this point in your life. Here, I’ll help you understand the differences so you can decide what fits you best in a clear, grounded way..
Understanding Group Therapy and Individual Therapy
Before deciding what fits best, it helps to get a basic feel for what group therapy and individual therapy really involve. Each can serve as a doorway to clarity, growth, and a deeper sense of self, but they go about it in different ways. Most people already have a sense that individual therapy is private and group therapy is, well, with more people, but there’s a lot more under the surface.
In my work, many people come in thinking they already know the difference, “individual therapy is private, group therapy is with others”, but they’re often surprised by how much more each space holds once they step into it.
Individual therapy is classically a one-on-one partnership, just you and your therapist. It’s a place for focused personal exploration, a confidential space where you can sort through complicated feelings or pressing questions at your own pace. For many, it’s the safest space they’ve had to truly talk things out.
Group therapy, on the other hand, brings together a small number of people, the group, guided by a therapist, becomes a living practice ground for learning, support, and connection. Instead of carrying things alone, the group’s energy, feedback, and diversity become part of the therapeutic process.
Regardless of which path you lean toward, both forms of therapy at Encompassing Therapy & Counselling draw on a compassionate, existential outlook. Our approach is about exploring meaning, honoring your autonomy, and helping you engage with life’s uncertainties in a supportive, non-judgmental way. As you read on, you’ll see the specifics, what each modality involves, when they work best, and how they might fit your unique story, so you feel grounded before taking the next step.
What Is Individual Therapy?
Individual therapy, such as Individual Existential Therapy, is a private, one-on-one meeting between you and a therapist. It’s designed to give you focused, personalized support for whatever life is throwing at you, be it anxiety, loss, or questions about your identity and values. Each session is tailored for your needs and goals, allowing for a pace that matches where you’re at emotionally.
Clients often tell me, “This is the first place I’ve been able to say this out loud,” which speaks to how rare it can be to have uninterrupted, focused space just for yourself.
At Encompassing Therapy & Counselling, sessions emphasize existential therapy. This approach centers on self-discovery, authenticity, and learning to navigate life’s uncertainties without judgment. The space is confidential, compassionate, and built for deep exploration, no rushing, no pressure to pretend. Clients are invited to start with a session to see if the therapeutic relationship feels like the right fit for them.
What Is Group Therapy?
Group therapy brings several clients together with a therapist in a shared, confidential environment. Each group typically focuses on open discussion, shared challenges, and personal stories under the guidance of the therapist. While everyone comes with their own background, the collective reflection and feedback often spark growth that goes beyond what’s possible alone.
It’s also common for people to come in feeling unsure at first, many have said, “I didn’t think I’d feel comfortable sharing, but hearing others made it easier than I expected.”
At Encompassing Therapy & Counselling, group therapy offer a unique, unscripted experience, inviting participants to learn from real-time relationships and embrace the dynamics of being seen and heard in community. Dr. Magdalen Cheng adapts group processes thoughtfully for different cultural backgrounds, making space for diversity, emotional safety, and meaningful connection.
Why the Choice Matters
Deciding between group and individual therapy shapes more than just the logistics of your sessions, it has a real impact on how you grow and heal. The format you choose influences the kind of support you receive, what you learn about yourself, and how you relate to others both inside and outside the therapy room.
In individual therapy, your relationship with the therapist takes center stage, offering a confidential container where you can dive deep into personal questions. This privacy can make it easier to share difficult feelings or stories, and it can lead to insights tailored specifically to your life and context. For people facing very sensitive, complex, or identity-related concerns, this format can feel safer and more focused.
Group therapy, meanwhile, puts you in the company of others walking similar paths. Experiencing support from peers helps to normalize struggles and break down isolation. Relationships within the group can mirror patterns from your outside life, allowing you to experiment with new ways of relating in real time. It’s a chance to learn not just from the therapist, but from the perspectives and resilience of others.
Ultimately, this choice also touches on existential themes, how comfortable you are with vulnerability, how much you value belonging versus privacy, and how willing you are to stretch into new experiences. Being thoughtful about therapy format means giving yourself the best shot at finding both healing and meaning on your own terms.
Key Benefits of Individual Therapy
- Deep Privacy and Confidentiality: Sessions are strictly between you and your therapist, offering a space where you can discuss the most sensitive or complicated issues without concern about being overheard or judged. This sense of safety often supports more honest conversations.
- Personalization and Flexibility: Every session is tailored to your needs and goals, with the freedom to set the pace and direction. Therapists adjust their approach to suit what you’re ready for, making space for unique histories or cultural backgrounds.
- Focused Self-Exploration: The undivided attention allows for intensive personal growth, particularly around tough questions like identity, values, and coping with anxiety or big transitions. With existential therapy, there’s an emphasis on authenticity and embracing uncertainty.
- Strong Therapeutic Relationship: Much of the healing comes from the bond between you and your therapist, giving you a consistent, reliable foundation for change.
Key Benefits of Group Therapy
- Connection and Shared Understanding: By joining a group, you realize you’re not alone, others grapple with similar issues, which helps reduce shame and isolation. The shared human experience itself can be healing, a benefit widely supported in group psychotherapy research (Marmarosh et al., 2022).
- Collective Wisdom and Feedback: Group members offer different viewpoints and coping strategies in real time, broadening your understanding of yourself and giving fresh perspectives that might not emerge in solo work.
- Relational Growth and Practice: Groups provide a unique “laboratory” for practicing new communication and boundary-setting skills, experimenting safely with how you relate to others. Relational paradoxes like belonging versus standing out become learning opportunities.
- Emotional Normalization and Support: The group’s diversity normalizes a wide range of feelings, fostering resilience and a sense of community.
Common Challenges in Each Format
Every form of therapy comes with its own set of obstacles. Some clients step into individual therapy expecting instant ease but find that deep self-reflection can sometimes feel a little isolating. Others look to groups for camaraderie, only to feel anxious about exposing vulnerabilities in front of strangers at first.
Concerns over privacy, safety, and comfort often shape which format feels doable, or which barriers might need attention. Individual therapy can create a powerful confidential space, but it can also spotlight the burden of carrying emotions alone. Group settings offer the comfort of shared journeys, yet navigating collective vulnerability or group dynamics takes courage and trust.
Recognizing these challenges is part of the process as you figure out what type of support sets you up for real, sustainable change. Up next, I’ll break down what privacy really looks like in individual therapy, and how to get past initial hurdles when stepping into group settings.
Privacy and Comfort in Individual Therapy
One-on-one therapy is known for strong confidentiality. Whatever you say in the session is kept between you and your therapist, building trust and giving you the freedom to speak honestly. This privacy is especially supportive when processing sensitive topics, major life decisions, or difficult feelings that you might not want to share elsewhere.
The flip side is that sometimes the very privacy that feels safe can also feel isolating. Some clients notice that, even with a compassionate therapist, they miss the perspective or camaraderie of others. Still, the depth of the therapeutic relationship can allow for exploration and healing that’s tough to achieve in shared spaces.
Navigating Vulnerability in Group Settings
Opening up in front of a group isn’t easy, especially around sensitive or painful experiences. Many people worry about being judged, misunderstood, or simply not fitting in. That first step, speaking in the group, takes courage.
But group therapy creates the opportunity for something powerful: being witnessed by others and finding out you’re not alone. Existentially, this shared vulnerability becomes a source of resilience and growth. Skilled therapists, like those at Encompassing Therapy & Counselling, establish clear group guidelines to promote emotional safety, respect, and trust, helping everyone feel secure enough to take that leap.
When Is Group Therapy Most Effective?
- Working on Relationship Patterns: If you often struggle with communication, boundaries, or connecting with others, group therapy provides a real-time practice ground. You’ll learn about your patterns, and try out new responses, in a supportive setting.
- Navigating Life Transitions: Major changes like moving to a new country, adapting to new roles, or grieving losses are easier when shared. A group normalizes common anxieties and supports resilience.
- Coping with Existential or Cultural Questions: For those wrestling with issues of identity, belonging, or living between cultures, groups foster a sense of mutual understanding and validation.
- Building Community and Support: When you crave connection, want to overcome isolation, or value learning from others, group therapy’s collective wisdom becomes uniquely transformative.
When Is Individual Therapy Most Effective?
- Deeply Personal or Private Struggles: When you need space to discuss trauma, grief, or identity issues that feel too raw for a group, individual therapy’s confidentiality is key. This is especially important when safety or trust are paramount.
- Desire for Tailored Support: If you want therapy that adapts precisely to your needs, be it cultural questions, value exploration, or pacing, one-on-one sessions let you set the agenda.
- Needing Privacy or Focus: Clients who are not yet ready to share with a group, or who have hectic lives that require flexible scheduling, tend to thrive here. The attention stays on your story alone.
- Clarifying Values Amid Cultural Pressures: When you feel torn between your cultural background and your emerging sense of self, individual therapy can help you navigate uncertainty, choose authentic actions, and set healthy boundaries in a non-prescriptive way.
How Existential Therapy Shapes Group and Individual Work
Existential therapy is the backbone of both group and individual work at Encompassing Therapy & Counselling. This approach centers on big-picture questions: Who am I? What truly matters to me? How do I handle life’s uncertainties, paradoxes, and moments of doubt?
In practice, existential therapy invites clients to explore meaning, embrace their freedom and responsibility, and stay present with the anxiety of not knowing all the answers. Whether you’re in a group or on your own, these principles shape how therapy unfolds, sessions are less about advice and more about supporting you to make sense of your own experience.
For clients from Asian or diverse cultural backgrounds, existential therapy is especially attuned to the dance between individuality and community. Therapists like Dr. Cheng weave together questions of belonging, identity, and autonomy, acknowledging that cultural context matters deeply when searching for what’s authentic and meaningful. To learn more about this philosophy, consider reading what existential therapy means.
Cultural Factors to Consider in Therapy Choices
Cultural background strongly shapes how someone experiences, expresses, and processes emotional struggles. Families might hold expectations about privacy, community, or emotional restraint, all of which affect the comfort level with therapy formats. For example, research shows that in many Asian communities, there’s often a greater hesitance to “air dirty laundry” outside the family or disclose personal matters in a group setting.
Yet for others, being among peers who share similar cultural dilemmas, questions of fitting in, handling parental pressures, or balancing autonomy, can be liberating and profoundly validating. Group therapy may provide a sense of solidarity, while individual therapy gives space for deeply personal or culturally sensitive reflection. Studies and expert perspectives agree: the best format is often the one that honors both cultural values and individual readiness.
Considerations like language preferences, norms around authority, and collective versus individual orientation all play a role. Ultimately, understanding your unique family and cultural story helps you choose the format that feels safest and most transformative on your journey.
Practical Questions to Ask When Deciding
- How comfortable am I with sharing in a group? Reflect on whether discussing personal topics with others sounds manageable or overwhelming. Some find relief in group camaraderie, others need the privacy of one-on-one work.
- Do I prioritize confidentiality? If complete privacy feels non-negotiable right now, individual therapy is likely a better fit, especially for topics you’re not ready to share publicly.
- What are my scheduling needs? Are group times fixed, or do I need flexibility? Individual therapy might adapt more easily to changing work, family, or travel schedules.
- What’s my main goal for therapy? Are you seeking personal clarity, recovery from trauma, or relational and community support? Pinning down your goals helps direct your choice of format.
- What’s my cultural background and history with vulnerability? Explore how upbringing and community values influence your comfort in being open, group therapy can challenge or validate old narratives, while individual therapy might feel safer.
Combining Group and Individual Therapy
Group and individual therapy don’t have to be an either-or decision. Many people find that combining both opens up even greater possibilities for healing and growth. For example, you might maintain individual sessions to dive deep into private concerns or untangle long standing struggles, while also joining a group for relational practice, feedback, and a sense of community, especially since research shows both formats can be similarly effective in reducing anxiety and depression symptoms (Fawcett et al., 2020).
This blend allows the personal reflection and care of one-on-one therapy to enrich what you bring to the group, and vice versa, especially since research shows both formats are comparably effective for conditions like depression (Cuijpers et al., 2008).Insights gained in group discussion can spark new personal questions for individual exploration.
Some clients use the group to work on social anxiety or relational skills, while relying on individual work for deeper self-discovery. Both formats support your journey toward authenticity, resilience, and making peace with uncertainty.
Next Steps to Start Your Therapy Journey
- Reach out for a consultation. The first step can be as simple as booking a session at Encompassing Therapy & Counselling, helping you and your therapist determine if the fit is right without pressure.
- Explore upcoming group offerings. If you’re leaning toward collective support, review he group therapy options to see when new groups are forming and learn about their focus.
- Schedule a first session. Whether you’re sure which path to try or still undecided, taking that first session (individual or group) gives you a feel for the space, the approach, and what’s possible in therapy.
- Reflect on your readiness. Consider your goals, your openness to trying new modalities, and your availability. Remember, there’s no rush or wrong way to begin, each therapy journey is unique, and every question you ask is part of the process.
Conclusion
Deciding between group and individual therapy is deeply personal and meaningful. Each format offers its own pathways to insight, growth, and support, whether you need privacy, connection, or a bit of both. By understanding your own priorities and the unique gifts of each modality, you can make a choice that supports your journey toward authenticity and resilience. No matter where you start, every step is a chance to rediscover yourself and build more meaningful connections in your life.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is group therapy or individual therapy more effective?
Effectiveness depends on your unique needs and goals. Group therapy is powerful for building connection, learning from peers, and practicing relational skills. Individual therapy offers privacy and deep personal exploration. If you’re unsure, some people benefit from trying both formats, often, the “best” option is the one that feels most supportive for your current situation.
Will my privacy be protected in a group setting?
Group therapy is confidential, and members agree to respect each other’s privacy. That said, sharing sensitive topics in a group can feel vulnerable, so therapists set clear ground rules and foster trust. If privacy is your main concern, starting with individual therapy is wise, and you can explore group work as comfort grows.
How do I know if I’m ready for group therapy?
Readiness is different for everyone. Ask yourself how you feel about speaking in group settings and sharing personal experiences. Even some initial anxiety is normal. Group therapy works best when you’re open to trying new things and learning from others, but therapists will help you move at your pace and respect your boundaries.
Can I do both group and individual therapy at the same time?
Yes, combining both is common and can be highly beneficial. Individual sessions let you process private concerns, while group sessions offer relational learning and community. Many clients find that insights from one format enrich the other, helping them grow in new ways.
What’s different about existential therapy at Encompassing Therapy & Counselling?
Existential therapy at Encompassing Therapy & Counselling centers around meaning-making, authenticity, and embracing uncertainty. Both individual and group work invite you to explore big questions in a supportive, non-prescriptive way. The focus is always on helping you make sense of your own experience within a culturally sensitive, compassionate space.
References
- Marmarosh, C. L., Sandage, S., Wade, N., Captari, L. E., & Crabtree, S. (2022). New horizons in group psychotherapy research and practice from third wave positive psychology: A practice-friendly review. Research in Psychotherapy: Psychopathology, Process and Outcome, 25(3), 643.
- Cuijpers, P., van Straten, A., & Warmerdam, L. (2008). Are individual and group treatments equally effective in the treatment of depression in adults? A meta-analysis. European Journal of Psychiatry, 22(1), 38–51.
- Fawcett, E., Neary, M., Ginsburg, R., & Cornish, P. (2020). Comparing the effectiveness of individual and group therapy for students with symptoms of anxiety and depression: A randomized pilot study. Journal of American College Health, 68(4), 430–437.
About the Author
I am a BPS-accredited and SPS-accredited Counselling Psychologist with a Doctorate in Existential Psychology from the New School of Psychotherapy and Counselling in London, U.K. My care philosophy is not to diagnose, label, or categorise but rather to work with the individual in front of me in the here and now.
My clinical credentials certainly play a significant role in defining my professional identity. But to foster a deeper connection and authenticity, I invite you to discover my other “Selves”, the various facets of who I am.
